Last night, the New York Yankees won the World Series for the 27th time in their storied history, defeating the Philadelphia Phillies who had won it the previous season for just the second time in the team’s 126 years of existence. The Series was a study in contrasts. The Yankees were making their 40th World Series appearance; the Phillies only their sixth. The Yankees are considered the winningest franchise in professional sports; the Phillies have a history of adversity and have lost more games than any team in the annals of the grand old game – having eclipsed 10,000 losses as a franchise in 2008.
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To have been a lifelong Philadelphia Phillies’ fan is to know heartbreak and, as much as it should have, last night’s defeat at the hands of the Yankees did nothing to dispel my feelings of joy at the achievements of both the 2008 and 2009 editions of my favorite sports team. My love affair with the Phillies and baseball began in 1964.  That was the season that the upstart Phillies led the National League for virtually the entire season, only to squander a six and one-half game lead during a late-season ten game losing streak and finish one game behind the Saint Louis Cardinals in their quest for a National League pennant.
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That was also the season that I realized that my grandfather was a big fan of the team. At ten years old, I knew nothing of the team’s history of prior failures. I only knew of the team’s current success. As my extended family gathered for Sunday dinner at my grandparents home, I heard my grandfather talk hopefully about the Phillies and their prospects. He regaled us with stories about the “Whiz Kids,†the 1950 Phillies’ team that won the pennant only to lose the World Series in four straight games to the mighty New York Yankees.
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With all of the optimism about the spring and summer performance of that 1964 Phillies team, I also perceived a sense of foreboding, of imminent doom, among my grandfather and others. Much older than I, they had probably lived through the promise of seasons past only to have been severely disappointed. Yet, as the season wore on, even the skeptics began to believe that 1964 would be the Phillies’ year.
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In retrospect, the team’s collapse in the final days of that season vindicated the belief of many that the team’s performance that season was “too good to be true.â€Â In subsequent seasons, the team returned to its losing ways and did not surface as a pennant contender until the late 70’s. In 1977, my grandfather passed away having never seen his beloved Phillies win a World Series.
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And so, as Tug McGraw recorded the last out of the 1980 World Series, amidst the bedlam and jubilation of a franchise and city that had at long last reached baseball’s promised land, I couldn’t help but think of my grandfather and how happy he would have been to have witnessed it. And then, I thought to myself that he probably was enjoying it, in Heaven.
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It should come as no great surprise that sports, being a part of life, can offer us valuable life lessons. It can instill in us the value of hard work and persistence, of setting common goals, of shared experiences, and perhaps most significantly, of mutual respect and teamwork. As the members of the Philadelphia Flyers arrived in the locker room before game six of the 1974 Stanley Cup Playoffs, they saw scrawled on a blackboard a quotation from their coach, Fred Shero. It said “Win together today and we walk together forever.â€Â Winning the Cup that night, the players on that Flyers’ team still “walk together†in their memories and those of the witnesses to that event.
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Last season, the Phillies blessed their fans with a World Series Championship; last night, the Yankees did the same for their faithful both in the new Yankee Stadium and watching at home. Each team accomplished something that they and their fans, no doubt, will remember for as long as they live and perhaps beyond. And yet, the achievement would have been meaningless and impossible without the collective efforts of all involved.
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While talent plays a significant part, there is also an undeniable chemistry that separates the champions from the also-rans. In 2008 during the post-Series revelry, I was struck by the genuine sense of camaraderie and affection displayed for one another by the victorious Phillies’ players; particularly, the homegrown players including Jimmy Rollins, Chase Utley, Ryan Howard, Pat Burrell, and Brett Myers. Last night was no different. From the Yankees core four of Derek Jeter, Jorge Posada, Andy Pettitte, and Mariano Rivera to newer additions including Alex Rodriguez, Johnny Damon, Hideki Matsui, and C.C. Sabathia to Joba Chamberlain, Phil Hughes, and the younger Yankees, you could sense their connection and deep mutual respect.  Clearly, these unspoken, invisible bonds helped propel them in their quest.
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As in sports, so in life. The bonds that we create shape our lives, provide us opportunities for achievement, and contribute to our levels of happiness and personal fulfillment. If life is a series of interconnected experiences, then shared experiences form the fabric from which the tapestry of our civilization is created. And so, while we should associate with those whom we love, we should also learn to love those with whom we associate. In that way, we can form bonds fostering mutual respect and collective achievement in all avenues of our lives.
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Last season, I basked in the glow of satisfaction in which all Phillies’ fans, my departed grandfather included, participated. This season, I am certain, Yankees’ fans feel much the same way. The members of those championships teams are now indelibly linked in the minds and hearts of sports fans everywhere.
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Yet, each of us – in perhaps less highly publicized ways – can experience the profound triumph and satisfaction felt by members of sports championship teams. Tomorrow holds the promise of shared experiences with family members, friends, and associates – both old and new, as well as the potential for collective achievement permitting yet another group, in their own time and place, to “walk together forever.â€